You sound like my NV instructor
I agree and I think you should have called the cops; by letting them know YOU were the ones that were harrassed and had to pull the weapon negates any report filed by the scared BG. He may try to sue you over new pants since his are certainly soiled!
Although I agree that you calling the police would have been a good idea, I am quite surprised that store management did not insist on it.
Years ago when I worked as a retail manager if there was an asault on or property and I knew about it, my first call was to the police and the second to my district supervisor, if I did not make those two calls I would not have been the manager in the morning. Generally the liabilty aspect of both an assualt taking place on property and the fact that a weapon was displayed would raise red flags that say "official report".
When you show your gun in their "house" you now must play by their rules, you really are no longer in control. I am just most surprised by the rules they decided to play by.
In retrospect, I see where calling the Po-lice...even if only to be proactive and be the one to report first, just in case...would be a good idea. In fact, I did that myself some years ago when I had to go outside to confront a lurker. Turned out to be innocent enough, but it could have been a Bastid, if not a Zombie. However, I called the local constabulary to be the first one out with my side of the story.
I stand by my position, though, that apprehension is not in my job description.
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Here in Florida we have brandishing law's , so to CYOB , report so later the BG can't say you where brandishing him .
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I second that. If I've stopped the threat, I'm good to go.
I'm not sure about all this "be the first to call" stuff. Yeah, it's sounds good and I suppose it MIGHT save some legal hassle, but why is the onus on us, as law-abiding citizens, to prove our innocence? We have undergone background checks, hold down jobs, raise families, support our church, whatever. Anytime they want to put my personal record up against some ******* who's tried to hijack my wallet in a restroom, feel free.
Again, before anyone jumps down my throat, I'm not saying it's a bad idea, but I'm not gonna overreact to it, personally. Must be the stubborn Irish in me.
It sounded to me from the original post that the management actually escorted the guy out. That would have been the time to hold him and call the police. Not really your responsibility, or the store's, but you might have been able to save his next victim. After a couple of days have gone by I wouldn't bother reporting it. I wasn't there but it seems to me you shouldn't have to pull your gun if you're not going to shoot. And if you feared you were in imminent danger of physical vioence then you should have shot him.
I would have insisted that the police be called and the A$$H*%E be charged with attempted assault and attempted robbery. I would have been on my way after the bag of S%!T was cuffed, in the back of the cruiser, and on his way to the station. That way you will prevent it from happening to another person who may not be able to defend themselves.
Sorry to hear that happened to hubby. Have a good holiday and be safe…
You can give peace a chance alright..
I'll seek cover in case it goes badly..
You can give peace a chance alright..
I'll seek cover in case it goes badly..
A jerk BG might have reported DH for threatening him to gain the legal upperhand. Our CCW instructor (a police chief) made it very clear the first caller gets the benefit of the doubt.
See, this is what I don't understand. So, here I am in a public restroom where some low-life threatens me with personal violence; I open my jacket to show a firearm and BG breaks off the engagement. Threat stopped. Now, BG makes a call to LEO and gets the "benefit of the doubt"? BS. It's what...who draws their cell phone faster?
Anybody who is lurking in a public restroom to threaten private citizens is an obvious low-life and it's probably not their first criminal escapade. So, we look at their record (lowlife scumbag) and we look at mine (father, husband, professional position, no criminal record) and LEO doesn't recognize the reality of the situation?
My response: "Yeah, I displayed a weapon and it saved this idiot's life."
I was trained to STOP THE THREAT. Maybe we should change that to stop the threat PERMANENTLY. No worries then about who makes the faster phone call.