| | ![]() |
There are two things wrong with your statement. The first is "bring her around" and the second is "allowing."
Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.--The Dalai Lama
When my wife figured out I was packing she went ballistic (pun intended). Sometimes I said "okay". Once in awhile I gave her "the look", mostly I just ignored her. She got tired of waisting her time. Mine has spent the last thirty years trying to perfect the man she married. Others here have told you to "grow a pair". I will tell you to live your life by your values. She will either respect you or leave, either works. If she can push you around she won't respect you and worse, you won't respect yourself.
Your first mistake was getting in a relationship with a liberal.
Your second mistake is assuming she has power over you, indicated be the use of your word "allow'.
Your third mistake was not making it clear to her early on that you carry a gun and that's an important aspect of feeling safe.
Your fourth mistake is not taking control and saying "Im going to carry my weapon, and you can either like it, ignore it, or find a man who enjoys being defenseless with you".
Lots of fish in the sea. Dont let one get you killed.