This is kind of funny to me, to read. I was recently asked by another woman what she should purchase for her own personal use?
I said... Go to the store where you plan to purchase your firearm and try them out. Even if it takes you all day and you have to "try" each one (dry firing does not hurt pistols, I told her) - just do it. Then buy the one you feel most comfortable carrying, holding... it should be an extension of YOU, and it should feel that way when you're holding it... not a piece of heavy metal in your hand.
I plan to purchase another one for myself this year, and very soon. I carry - on a daily basis - a revolver but I also would like a semi-auto to carry with me daily. So I already know that my next purchase will be a smaller semi than the one I already have --- for "comfort purposes".
If it ain't broke, don't fix it. - Author Unknown ----------- Nos laetus epulor qui would domito nos. - Morticia Addams