I have a friend ,who`s now ex-wife was one crazy mean individual.She would get loud and verbally abusive to him and then hit herself to leave marks.She then would call the sheriffs department and tell them her husband got angry and hit her and they would come out and take him to jail when he never touched her,but she had marks she put on herself.That happened twice before he dumped her,but he is now in the situation you spoke of where he lost his rights to own a firearm because of it.